The con case is, well, everything from the aforementioned eye to encouraging more of a gun obsession than the Nerf guns have already inspired. Plus we don't want to get a reputation as the "gun family" in the neighborhood when all his buddies start asking their own parents for one.Yeah--we'd rather have the reputation of being a bunch of leftard GFWs.
When my youngest was around 7, one of the kids on his ball team was just about the wimpiest boy I'd ever encountered. My son invited him to a movie, but the kid started crying because he was afraid of--not what was on the screen--but the entire experience, including being in the dark. So I had to take him home and miss the show myself while my wife stayed with the other kids--there went two tickets plus the exorbitantly priced drink and candy I'd treated him to. When I got him home, his dad was laying around and when I told him why I was returning the kid early, he said he was aware the boy was scared of movies.
I figured I could either burn his ears off demanding to know why the hell he let me go through the expense and the effort, including paying for missing the experience when he knew this. I was so steamed I knew if I got started it would not be pretty, so I stifled my impulses in the interest of harmony at future games--after all, it was for the kids' benefit, not the parents.
A week later this guy shows up (late) at practice wearing an HCI T-shirt. Suddenly all the pieces fell into place.
That poor kid never had a chance.